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What regrets do you have? Wish you hadn’t eaten that ice cream for breakfast, or worn those shoes with that outfit? What about weightier regrets like wishing you hadn’t lied on that job application or run that red light? How about this one: are you regretting sexual activity, and if so, what can you do about it now?
A variety of factors can lead to this type of regret. Feeling as though you have violated your own moral code, experiencing unplanned and unpleasant consequences (such as an STI or pregnancy), or realizing the “relationship” wasn’t what you thought it was can all lead to you regretting sexual activity.
And regret isn’t the only emotional complication to becoming sexually active prematurely.
According to the Journal of Health Economics, “[Y]oung people who engage in unwed sex are likely to experience negative emotional consequences…[They] are likely to experience regret, guilt, lower self-respect, fear of commitment, and fears about pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.”
Slowed personal development and codependencies can also accompany premature sex. And when the relationship ends, depression and suicide can be the result.
Aside from all the emotional complications, physical consequences can lead to regretting sexual activity. An unplanned pregnancy can change the course of your life. And no one plans for an STI, which can be embarrassing, painful, permanent and even life-threatening.
Perhaps you’re thinking a condom will solve those potential problems. But according to Very Well Health, because condoms are not 100% effective, they can lower your risk for infections spread through bodily fluids (such as HIV, HPV, chlamydia and gonorrhea) but may not prevent them every time.
And for infections spread through skin-to-skin contact like syphilis, pubic lice, and some strains of HPV, condoms are completely ineffective.
And condoms are also not 100% effective in preventing pregnancy. With perfect use, they will fail to prevent pregnancy about 2% of the time (meaning 2 out of 100). “In any given year, approximately 15 out of every 100 people who rely on condoms as their only birth control get pregnant,” according to the Cleveland Clinic.
In truth, abstinence – a temporary decision to not engage in sexual behavior – is the only 100% guarantee against STIs and pregnancy. It’s a decision that can safeguard you from physical, emotional and psychological consequences.
A period of abstinence can also be a great time of healing from past emotional wounds, a time of self-reflection and self-improvement, and a time of great personal growth.
The good news is that just because you have already become sexually active does not mean that you have to continue to be sexually active. Although you can’t turn back the clock and undo any negative consequences you may be experiencing as a result of previous decisions, you can make better decisions going forward and prevent any further negative outcomes. You can make a decision that will prevent you from regretting sexual activity in the future.
If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy or concerns about an STI exposure, Alcove Health Women’s Clinic is here to help. Don’t let regretting sexual activity keep you from the care you need to protect your reproductive health. Call or visit our appointment page for a free and confidential medical appointment.
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