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Getting a positive pregnancy test when your kids are almost grown can be quite the surprise; more than one woman has called our clinic, saying,
“Help! I’m pregnant and have teenagers!”
If this is you, your mind is likely going in a million different directions, as this may not have been part of your plan.
So, first – slow down, take a moment, and breathe.
You may feel very alone but you’re not alone in this. Give yourself some time to think about what parenting (again) will look like for you. We’re here to help with a few tips.
Think about your teenagers – are they busy with school, friends and sports – or are they more reflective, quiet, and prefer to spend time in their rooms?
Knowing your teenagers’ personalities will help with planning the right time and place to share the news of your pregnancy. This can be pivotal for their attitudes toward their new sibling moving forward.
✅ Choose a time when your teenagers:
🚫 Avoid distractions such as television or phones. You want this time to be productive and healthy.
If you need help processing your own feelings before telling your teenagers that you’re pregnant, Alcove Health Women’s Clinic can help.
You can call us or make an appointment online for a confidential consultation where an advocate and registered nurse can help talk you through your options as well as other concerns you may have. You can also receive a lab-grade pregnancy test and an ultrasound. All for free.
Honesty is important in any conversation, but if you are feeling panic about having another baby, being honest with yourself and your teenagers is of utmost importance.
Your teenagers are old enough to understand what you’re about to tell them – and they need a safe place to process their own feelings, too.
Whether the situation is ideal or not, being open with your feelings shows your teenagers how to deal with an unplanned situation.
Our teenagers already know life can be difficult and seeing someone they care about walk through a tough situation will help them as they grow and mature.
When you’re pregnant and have teenagers, your teens might wonder how/if this new baby will impact your relationship with them. Reassuring your teenagers that you will continue to love them no matter how many children you have is important.
Finally, if you have teenagers and you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy, Alcove Health in Newport News is a safe space for you to process your options and receive the medically accurate information you need to make an informed decision that’s best for you and your entire family.
📞 Call or visit our appointment page to schedule your free and confidential medical appointment with Alcove Health.
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